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Mercy’s Story

Posted by Jane Beal on June 20, 2008

Mercy Senahe, an Ewe, grew up in the Volta region of Ghana, West Africa.  When Mercy was about eight years old, the fetish priest told her family they were cursed after a gold earring was lost because he believed that Mercy’s grandmother had stolen it.  To pay for this “theft,” and avoid the fatal consequences of the curse, the family planned to give Mercy, the youngest virgin daughter in the family, to the village shrine in Avakpe. 



”My age-mate came to tell me that I would be sent to some place and I would never come back,” Mercy relates today. “Some days later they told me that I should bathe because I was going to some place. I remembered what my age-mate had told me, so I went to the bush to hide. I stayed there until the night. When I came out, my grandfather beat me roughly. 



That same night they took me to cross the river to the shrine.”

After she arrived in the next village, she fell asleep on the ground.  When she woke up, her family was gone.  Women from the village shrine came and placed bracelets on her wrists and ankles.  They showed her how she must worship each of the idols in the shrine.  Mercy had become one of the “trokosi,” a slave to the gods.

Her new name in the shrine was “Gold.”  She was named after the item her grandmother had been accused of stealing.  She was the sacrifice meant to be appeasement for that crime, and she bore its name.

But Mercy did not understand this at the time.  In fact, she had no idea why she was in the shrine at all.  But she quickly learned to be terrified in her new environment. 

In the Avakpe shrine, Mercy was raped repeatedly by the priest, a ritualized form of sexual assault meant to symbolize the “marriage” between the trokosi and the shrine gods.

At about age twelve, Mercy gave birth to her first child, fathered by the priest.  She would have four children by him.  The priest had already fathered dozens of children borne by the other trokosi in the shrine.

Mercy had to farm to support herself and her children.  She was forced to work all day before she was allowed to eat.  She could not go to school.  Her children were not allowed to go to school either, but were instead forced to work with her on the farm to feed themselves.

Mercy tried to escape, but her family sent her back to the shrine.  She was completely trapped.

It was not until she was in her early twenties that Mercy was set free.  At that time, the International Needs Ghana (ING) team, a Christian ministry, came to negotiate for Mercy’s release. 

Intervention: International Needs Ghana, freeing the trokosi

Typically, ING involves all the stakeholders in the redemption process:  the priest, the women, their children, their families of origin, the Ewe village communities, the ING negotiators, and a Ghanaian government representative.  Once the priest agrees to set the women free, he performs a ritual inside the shrine to appease the idols.  Then, a second ceremony is performed, in which it is declared to the women, their families, and their Ewe communities that they are free:  no longer slaves, no longer trokosi.  The government official bears witness to this and signs a document to this effect.

Once women are set free, they often return to their families of origin and the villages where they formerly lived.  ING workers talk with their families to facilitate this re-integration process.  ING also offers education and work-skills training to the women through their Vocational Training Center (VTC) in Adidome so that they can economically support themselves and their children. 

At the VTC, women can learn mat-weaving, soap-making, bread-baking, hair-dressing, cloth-dyeing (“batik”), and dress-making, among other things.  Their older children attend ING schools in the Adidome.  Their younger children are cared for in an on-site nursery.  They themselves have the opportunity to learn reading, writing, and small business skills as well as health-care. 

Women are provided with one-on-one and group counseling to help them overcome their intense fears and traumatic experiences.  Many of them have been told that if they ever speak of what went on in the shrine, they or one of their family members would die.  They become free of these fears gradually.

ING staff share the knowledge and love of Jesus with these freed women, and many of them become passionate Christians.

Redemption:  Mercy Senahe, trokosi advocate

Today, Mercy is one of these Christian women. When ING negotiated for her release, her family would not accept her back because they were afraid of being cursed.  She went through the educational and work-skills training at the IN VTC, learning about baking and sewing, and she now works with ING and speaks publicly about her experiences.

I hope that many people in the world will hear her story and pray for the thousands of West African girls in Ghana, Togo, and Benin who, like Mercy before International Needs intervened, still need to be set free from the shrines, the trokosi system, and the terrors they have experienced.

“The tears in your eyes do not blind you,” African proverb from Togo, West Africa

For further information:  

WorldWide Religious News 

Ghanaian woman speaks out against tribal customs allowing slavery 

 

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May/June 2008 Update: International Needs Ghana (ING)

Posted by Jane Beal on June 20, 2008

I recently spent two weeks in Ghana, West Africa, visiting the International Needs Vocational Training Center in Adidome and the main office in Accra.  

This was an awesome time of building relationships and ministry partnerships.  I believe that the work of the ING VTC is exemplary, a model for other Christian ministries seeking to bring hope and healing to women who have been sexually abused, assaulted, or trafficked.

Below, I explain some of the highlights of the trip.

Ministry to Wheaton College Student Interns:

One of my primary reasons for visiting Ghana, West Africa was to provide practical and spiritual support to Sarah and Michelle, Wheaton College students serving as SMP (Student Missionary Project) interns with International Needs at the Vocational Training Center (VTC) in Adidome, Ghana. 

I spent four days with Sarah and Michelle on site in Adidome and a fifth day visiting Kakum National Forest and the former slave-fort of El Mina in Cape Coast.  During this time, I had the opportunity to listen to the student interns as they processed their feelings and concerns about their cross-cultural experiences.  We prayed and fellowshiped together.  

Ministry for the Office of Christian Outreach:

I also had the opportunity to evaluate the International Needs VTC to determine whether it would be a suitable internship site in future years.  I toured the site, visiting each work-skills training classroom, meeting the teachers and students engaged in learning cloth dyeing, dress making, hair dressing, bread baking, mat weaving, soap making, and so on.  I attended a “micro-finance” workshop sponsored by a visiting professor, which aims to help women successfully run their small businesses, and I attended a reproductive health class, which aims to educate women about their family planning options.  I witnessed the older children of the women leaving to attend school in Adidome and the younger children being cared for in the nursery. 

I systematically photographed the site to give a clear visual picture of what is done there to the Office of Christian Outreach as well as future student interns and those interested in supporting the IN VTC financially.  These pictures are available for viewing in the “my photos” section of my profile, Jane Ellen Louise Beal, on Facebook.

I was deeply encouraged to see the spiritual side of the IN VTC as well.  I attended choir practice one afternoon as well as the Friday evening and Sunday morning church services.  These were powerful opportunity to praise God and hear His Word preached.

I interacted with all the major staff members of the project.  I met with the IN VTC director, Patience Vormawor, as well as the head counselor, Priscilla Kalitsi, discussing the project’s goals and needs.  I also met with Pastor Jacob, who works as an church planter in the Volta region.  I met with other staff in the International Needs main office in the city of Accra, including the director, Rev. Walter Pimpong, after he returned from a fund-raising and speaking tour in Europe.  In a discussion with the head accountant, I learned that over 160 employees work for the ING on a budget of approximately $400,000.  I’ve begun to pray that God would double this budget so that this NGO, which already has all the necessary infrastructure in place, may grow and expand its services to the thousands of women still waiting to be set free from the trokosi system.

It is my conviction that the IN VTC is a project with integrity and that its staff are doing what they say they do.  It is clear that hundreds of women are benefiting economically from their training, emotionally from counseling, and spiritually from the knowledge of the love and power of Jesus Christ.  It is my hope that the Wheaton College Office of Christian Outreach will form a permanent ministry partnership with International Needs in Ghana, West Africa.

Ministry Partnership with International Needs:

I had the opportunity to partner in ministry with the IN VTC staff while on site.  I learned from talking with Sarah and Michelle, as well as Priscilla Kalitsi, the head counselor, that many women who were formerly trapped in the trokosi system now suffer from symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.  Many of the women have a difficult time talking about their experiences in group or in one-on-one settings with the counselor.  (One particularly brave woman, Mercy, is an exception to this.)  So I spoke with Priscilla about the possibility of sharing my testimony of surviving sexual assault in childhood as a way of encouraging the women at the IN VTC.  Priscilla thought this would be an effective way of modeling open communication about past sexually abusive experiences, and she invited me to speak at the Friday night meeting.

So I shared part of my testimony of surviving childhood sexual assault in simple sentences that were then translated into two languages, Ewe and Danmge.  As part of this testimony service, I played two songs on flute:  “Give Me Jesus” and “Evidence of Your Glory.”  I also performed a praise dance at the conclusion to the song “Surrounded” by Audrey Hatcher, which presented a picture of how God surrounds us with His love even when we are afraid or alone or discouraged.  This dance provoked a powerful response among the listeners.  I was deeply thankful for the opportunity praise God in the dance because the praise-dance was able to cross the language barriers and show the love of God visibly to the women present.

Thankfulness

I am deeply thankful to God that I had the opportunity to visit Ghana, West Africa and connect with the people doing such critical work at the International Needs Vocational Training Center.  

 

Dr. Jane Beal

JSASSN International 

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